Shower Realization Part 1

So I'm in the shower this morning and I had another fancy realization of mine. (I don't know why I always have these epiphany's in the shower...maybe the sound of water is relaxing, or it's cuz there's no distractions and I can be alone with my thoughts...who knows! Maybe I'll have a realization of why my realizations are always in the shower but until then onto my point.) So I'm standing there thinking, you know how when you break up with someone, usually the first thing out of people's mouth's is you deserve better...blah blah blah...and the other person's friends are most likely telling them the same thing. Well...I realized that we are all missing the point about relationship. Love is not about what someone deserves...it's more about what someone doesn't deserve...that's when you can prove it's existence in action. Love is not ever going to be an equal effort action. It wasn't made to be that way. We should stop trying to force it to fit into a box it wasn't meant to fit in. The premise and purest form of love is unconditional. I often wondered how someone could love someone else that didn't love them back...but in all honesty, it's because that person actually loved them. So when I start thinking about relationships and love in an aspect of what I deserve and what my actions should be to reciprocate a good or bad action done to me, I'm going to stop and remember that that's not what love is actually about. Instead I'm gonna throw my arms open wide and love the amazingness and the flaws that make up and come with that person regardless of what I or they deserve...cuz that's what real love's all about. ;) There's more to this realization but I'll spare your eyeballs and brain for a bit and maybe bring it out in a shower realization part 2. Lol